Comments on: Who really wants to be coached? http://www.coachbarrow.com/blog/2009/11/24/who-really-wants-to-be-coached/ All problems exist in the absence of a good conversation Fri, 16 Jul 2010 17:09:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Simon Reilly http://www.coachbarrow.com/blog/2009/11/24/who-really-wants-to-be-coached/comment-page-1/#comment-16611 Simon Reilly Wed, 25 Nov 2009 02:46:50 +0000 http://www.coachbarrow.com/blog/?p=2183#comment-16611 Hi Chris, Thanks so much for your kind words. While the show reel that you posted is far better production wise, my speaking vanity wants to offer this UTube video which is two years further down the road than the one you offered; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlCbrIJzGYs Thanks, Simon .-= Simon Reilly´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SimonReillysBlog/~3/dk8BMGO4sVM/" rel="nofollow">Twitter Compels Me To</a> =-. Hi Chris,
Thanks so much for your kind words. While the show reel that you posted is far better production wise, my speaking vanity wants to offer this UTube video which is two years further down the road than the one you offered; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlCbrIJzGYs
Thanks,
Simon
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]]> By: Pete http://www.coachbarrow.com/blog/2009/11/24/who-really-wants-to-be-coached/comment-page-1/#comment-16587 Pete Tue, 24 Nov 2009 11:51:17 +0000 http://www.coachbarrow.com/blog/?p=2183#comment-16587 Not everyone wants coaching because not everyone wants to get better..... A lot of people are put up with "their lot" because the thought of doing something about it is too great. If I go for coaching.... I have to admit that my current set up is disfunctional, thats "the one that I built". Then ask for help in building a new structure. If I was any good I'd build a good structure that doesn't need to be re-built. The new structure wil be different and I wont be incontroll like I used to be..... So I tell myself the current set up is not that bad and choose not to go for coaching. It's just like the patient that needs a "full mouth rehab" and yet is happy with the state of her mouth. You cannot "sell" her a complete smile makeover, she simply does not want or see the need for it. Then throw in a "transition element" and she suddenly wants all the treatment you can do "whatever the cost". Likewise the people that want coaching are also in "transition" either wanting to grow to the next level, bigger better, or despirate to move on to something happier, escape the mess that their current situation is. Chris Barrow is my coach..... I am in transition. Not everyone wants coaching because not everyone wants to get better…..

A lot of people are put up with “their lot” because the thought of doing something about it is too great.

If I go for coaching…. I have to admit that my current set up is disfunctional, thats “the one that I built”. Then ask for help in building a new structure. If I was any good I’d build a good structure that doesn’t need to be re-built. The new structure wil be different and I wont be incontroll like I used to be….. So I tell myself the current set up is not that bad and choose not to go for coaching.

It’s just like the patient that needs a “full mouth rehab” and yet is happy with the state of her mouth. You cannot “sell” her a complete smile makeover, she simply does not want or see the need for it. Then throw in a “transition element” and she suddenly wants all the treatment you can do “whatever the cost”.

Likewise the people that want coaching are also in “transition” either wanting to grow to the next level, bigger better, or despirate to move on to something happier, escape the mess that their current situation is.

Chris Barrow is my coach….. I am in transition.

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